Good topics of conversation are: work, studies, the
weather (a good opener), one's house, vacations, sports (especially hockey,
American football, baseball, water sports and, increasingly, soccer/football)
and other leisure activities. Generally, Canadians are not comfortable talking
about salaries or personal finances and tend to steer away from discussing
emotions. Asking questions about marriage or children can be interpreted as too
personal by some.
Generally, it is good to keep conversation light and, if possible, funny. If
people really want to know a lot about a given subject, they will ask
questions; otherwise, it is best not to get too seriously into any one topic.
Appropriate topics of discussion will depend a lot on the crowd. Most Canadians
know something about local or national politics, but many do not concern
themselves with such issues. In any case, you will hear Canadians complain
about politics and politicians but they are also very sensitive to how they are
perceived by outsiders, so it is best to refrain from criticizing. Many
Canadians have travelled abroad and have differing degrees of exposure to the
ways of other countries. The more they have travelled, the more curious they
are likely to be about the perceptions of foreigners; I would not recommend
making this a main topic of conversation, however.
Canadians are often very proud of their natural surroundings, Canadian weather
and their heartiness with respect to enduring the weather. Canadian musicians,
writers, film producers and actors (comedians especially) are also a great
source of pride. Men in particular are proud of Canadian beer and hockey,
although women are increasingly a part of this sub-culture. Virtually all
Canadians are eager to distinguish themselves from Americans.
The best way to impress most Canadians is to show what you have noticed is
different from the United States, as there is a great deal of sensitivity and
concern about being lumped in with our powerful neighbour. Most Canadians see
themselves as humbler, funnier, more tolerant and/or less aggressive than
Americans. I would not recommend overly criticizing the US, however. Canada
depends on its neighbour and has strong cultural and historical ties. Many
Canadians have relatives who live in the US.
Canadians tend to be very politically correct and concerned with fairness,
although this varies from one region to the next and depends on the crowd. As
the cherished image of many Canadians is of a tolerant society that is also
more socially minded than that of the US, discussions of social classes, racial
or other discrimination and private medical care are to be approached with
care.
Generalizations about Canadians can also raise sensitive issues of regionalism.
Central Canadians typically claim to speak for the country and Quebecois,
people from the East Coast, the North, the West Coast, the West and the
Prairies frequently differ from Central Canadians' perspectives and are eager
to point out the differences. A similar dynamic operates between Toronto and
anyone outside of Toronto and there can be large cultural differences between
other cities as well.